The following books and websites can help you learn more about polyamory- they were very helpful for me!

Sacred Sexual Healing
by Kamala Devi
"This book is the most readable, down to earth book on tantra I've found! It's engaging and accessible for beginners and masters alike, and I highly recommend it! Kamala Devi was featured as the amazing tantra teacher in our episode of MTV True Life 'I'm Polyamorous.'"

Sacred Sexual Healing blows the bedroom doors off an underground Tantra revolution, exposing the work of the modern sexual healer and making available practical secrets. We offer dozens of exercises to help women re-discover their libido, relieve pain during intercourse and connect to their sexual intuition. Men will eliminate fear of intimacy, cure performance anxiety, and learn to sexually satisfy a woman. The intention of this book is to heal the greatest collective wound on the planet: the separation between sex and spirit!

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The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
Considered by many to be required reading for those interested in polyamory, this book is a very practical guide to handling multiple partners. Written in a frank, easy to read style, it covers many issues, skills and tips related to polyamorous lifestyles - including jealousy, scheduling, resolving conflicts, and raising children.

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
by Tristan Taormino
This book provides basic information concerning open or non-monogamous relationships: the various types of arrangements, psychological demands and difficulties, and practical considerations involving going public, raising children, legalities, and safe sex practices.

Open: Love, Sex & Life in an Open Marriage
by Jenny Block
Sex is on everyone's minds - we're talking about it, thinking about it, watching television programs and movies about it, reading about it, and writing about it. Open is a book about sex. It's about sex within the confines of an open marriage. It's about the many ups and downs Jenny Block has had as well as the consequences and lessons she's learned from having made the decision to open her marriage.

The Polyamory Handbook
by Peter Benson
The Polyamory Handbook starts with describing what polyamory is, and is not; but nearly all of this book comprises a comprehensive guidebook about how to live this sometimes challenging but immensely satisfying and growthful lifestyle and lovestyle, smoothly, happily, successfully; and how to navigate any bumps in the road that you and your partners may encounter. The book also makes clear that polyamory is not for everyone; it does not try to "sell" polyamory to anyone.

Stranger in a Strange Land
by Robert A. Heinlein
This sci-fi novel written in 1961 depicted the idea of group households and line marriages in a positive, affirming way. This book acted as many people's introduction into polyamory, though not all modern polyamorists agree with its model.


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